How to: Shibari in BDSM for begginers!

The professional porn actor Joaquin Santana wearing the chest harness and the hip harness in one of our bondage sessions.

Let’s start with the basics.

Shibari, also known as Japanese rope bondage, is a form of rope bondage that originated in Japan. It typically involves the use of rope to create intricate patterns on the body, which can be both aesthetically pleasing, sexually and spiritually stimulating. 

Shibari and BDSM are two practices that often go hand-in-hand. 

When used together, Shibari and BDSM can create a powerful sexual connection between partners. The rope can be used to create a sense of physical and emotional closeness, while the BDSM activities can add an extra layer of excitement and intensity. The combination can be truly intoxicating, and even addictive for some.

Exploring Shibari.

If you’re interested in exploring Shibari with your partner, there are a few things you should keep in mind. First, communication is key. Make sure you discuss your desires, limits, and boundaries with your partner before getting started. It’s also important to be safe and use proper safety precautions, such as using quality rope and ensuring that knots are tied securely. And finally, don’t forget to have fun! Shibari can be an incredibly erotic and satisfying experience for both partners when done right. Shibari also has a number of benefits beyond the sexual. The act of tying and being tied can be incredibly meditative and relaxing, and can help to create a deep sense of connection between partners. It can also be used as a form of self-expression, and can be an incredibly empowering experience for those who engage in it. 

Key Tips.

When engaging in Shibari, it is important to be aware of a few key safety precautions. First, always use quality rope. This will help to avoid rope burns and other injuries. Second, make sure knots are tied securely. This will help to prevent the rope from coming undone and potentially causing injury. Finally, communication is key. Discuss your desires, limits, and boundaries with your partner before getting started. This will help to ensure that both partners are on the same page and that everyone is comfortable and safe.

Patterns and how to. 

There are a variety of different patterns that can be used when doing Shibari. Some of the most popular include the single column tie, the chest harness and the hip harness. Each of these patterns can be used to create a different effect and can be adjusted to fit the individual’s needs. When choosing a pattern, it is important to consider the individual’s comfort level and what you hope to achieve. For beginners, it is often best to start with a simpler pattern and build up to more complex ones. With practice, you’ll be able to create any number of different patterns to suit your needs.

Here are ways to do two of the most popular patterns for you to enjoy with your partner:

How to do a Shibari chest harness:

  1. Start by tying a rope around the person’s chest, just below the breasts.
  2. Make sure the rope is tight, but not too tight. 
  3. Cross the rope over the person’s back, and tie it in the front. 
  4. Cross the rope again in the back, and tie it in the front. 
  5. Repeat steps 3 and 4 until you have a lattice-like pattern. 
  6. Tie the rope off in the front, and trim the excess.

How to do a Shibari hip harness:

  1. Measure your hips and choose the appropriate size rope for your body. 
  2. Fold the rope in half and tie a basic knot at the center. 
  3. Wrap the rope around your hips, crossing the rope in the front and passing it under your butt. 
  4. Tie a knot in the front, making sure the rope is tight but not too tight. 
  5. Take the ends of the rope and tie them together in a basic knot. 
  6. You can adjust the tightness of the rope by pulling on the ends of the rope. 

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