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Cooking With Flavor 1 & 2!


It was a long time ago since we spoke about some of our scenes or did a review about them. Today I’d like to talk about Cooking With Flavor, one of the latest scenes of mydirtiestfantasy.com.

Some ass is about to get spicy.

So I was working at the office when I heard that Timmy was watching some porn videos with food… You know; the typical: “put some cream on my cock and eat it” kind of video. But you already know that Timmy goes hardcore mode and he said: hey, let’s do some scenes with food!

I’m the kind of person who worries a lot about food waste but I just couldn’t even be mad about it since I could eat a big plate of spaghetti cooked by Scott Miller at the end of the recording, did you know he used to be in a kitchen before porn? And no, we didn’t eat the food that was before inside Gabriel’s ass! But… would you stick food inside an ass an then eat it? LEAVE IT IN THE COMMENTS!

We bought all the stuff we needed and we went to the set!

Recognized 712 michelin star or not, she can actually cook!

Let’s go to the part you all care about, yeah, the chili inside the ass. I never tried, I don’t know if you can somehow “taste” the food through the ass. I guess Gabriel felt spicy? He was just enjoying and he didn’t gave any complaint about the chili inside the ass, so why don’t you try it if your reading this?

Yes, do me a favor, grab a chili, of course some lubricant, put the lubricant in the chili, now start to stick it inside your ass. I beg you, leave in the comments how does it feel to have a chili inside your ass! And yes, this is the real reason I’m writing this; because I NEED TO KNOW.

Who knows? Maybe it’s a way to enhance sexual life! If different lubricants can make you feel different kind of ways it’s sure that food has to have an effect! If Timmy worries about something, sure is about to give you ideas to make your sexuality bloom to the maximum!

Bizarre and artistic.

Impressions? I spoke with Scott a while and I realized how great he is, the guy knows and has lived cool stuff. And I didn’t speak much with Gabriel but he is a very good twink: look at his body; he has a perfect womanly body; slim, nice curves, we can pretty much say that he’s beautiful. Scott is too; I love his eyes and tattoos!

Cooking With Flavor still has surprises for us but we can tell for sure how Timmy is mixing drama, comedy and so much more genres in a very inspirational way. It feels so different to edit a normal BDSM scene and then special scenes like this one. I hope you know what I mean. Who knows what Timmy will do next? If you haven’t seen these scenes, you should watch it right now!

“Bonding”. A Netflix Series about BDSM.

A controversial series about BDSM who learned about its mistakes. A review from mydirtiestfantasy.

Introduction about Bonding.

Bonding is a Netflix series that I watched recently.

It’s a dark comedy that follows a grad student and her gay best friend, who aspires to be a comedian as they start a business as professional dominatrices.

Tiff and Pete, navigate the world of professional BDSM in New York City. Rightor Doyle created the show. It stars Zoe Levin as Tiff and Brendan Scannell as Pete. The show is a refreshing take on the taboo topic of BDSM.

Some pros of Bonding.

It is an honest and funny look at the relationship between Tiff and Pete. They face a variety of challenges while trying to build their business.

The series does an impressive job of showing the complexity of the BDSM community and the various relationships that people form within it. The characters are all compelling and the show does a great job of showing the various aspects of the BDSM lifestyle. From the struggles of financial insecurity to the dynamics between the clients and the dominatrices.

Overall, Bonding is a great new series that offers an honest and humorous look at the BDSM culture. A must-watch for anyone interested in the lifestyle.

Some cons of Bonding.

The show depicts Tiff as one of the best dommes in NYC, the thing is, she’s really not that good.

She displays a lack of understanding of the principles of safety and consent: two values that are considered sacrosanct in the BDSM community.

She is never seen engaging in ongoing discussions with clients — whose fetishes are, again, largely played for laughs — about their boundaries. For a show about sex work and BDSM, it has no interest in engaging with the reality of what it means to do both safely.

How they improved in Season 2:

The first season received a lot of criticism because of how the characters felt stereotypical. Season 2 feels a lot more connected to the reality of what actually is sex work. It seems to represent better the sex workers and how their lives can be.

They hired Olivia Troy, a BDSM professional and intimacy coordinator, to consult on the series for Season 2. The result is a bigger focus on educating the audience through the show’s characters.

Gay Sauna: The first time!

Did you know that STX International College was made by the creators of mydirtiestfantasy.com?

Many people send us messages wanting to become models or just to show appreciation. But this time one of our fans who watched the second episode of our current STX International College season knew by our “Behind The Scenes” videos that we were recording in a gay sauna!

Driven by the desire to be in the models of the scene’s position, he started telling us about his first experience on a gay sauna and gave us ideas for future videos… We won’t tell about who he is yet because of his petition, but here it goes:

The Beginning Of The Night.

“I never went to a gay sauna before but I always wanted to try, I think I felt a bit shy but after I got inside the first time, I absolutely cut loose.

Dancing in a LGTB disco with some friends, when it was 2am; one of them decided to cap off the night by going the four of us to a gay sauna. I was so drunk I didn’t even knew at the time where we were going but once I got in, I didn’t want to come out. Oh my, of course not.

So I was still a bit conscious of what we were doing, I closed the door behind me, wanting to experience the whole thing; when you’re a twenty years old twink you dream about having the time of your life with a hot muscle daddy around his thirty with a hairy chest, smooth beard, swart with hazel eyes… or at least that was my fantasy since I gave away almost all of my cum watching Dani Robles’s videos. I knew I was going to have a lot of sex.

First of all, we went to the steam sauna part, and I was surrounded by all kinds of men like in the rest of the gay bathhouse, I thought that everybody could get out satisfied from that place because it was like choosing your favorite flavor of lollipop, the fact that it was friday night helped a lot.

Sitting in the wooden bench, I could feel how some drops of sweat slipped through my hairless body.”

Some of the sex.

“Some guys of my age sat right next to me, they were skinny but hot, with a kinky look with them, a bundle body, degraded and mohawk hair, wearing one or two piercings…

One of them started removing my towel, and the other one put his hand on my balls so the other could jerk my cock off, that gave me so much pleasure and I couldn’t avoid to sigh out from all of morbidity they were making me go through. But without even noticing, one of them was already sucking my dick.

Between all of the arousal I turned to one of my friends and I showed him how good my night was going; he bite his lips and told me that I shouldn’t cum yet because there was still a lot of fun ahead. So, I enjoyed some more minutes of that blowjob and then I tried to get out to leave two thirsty guys in the steam room. I felt like I used their mouths without returning the favor, so I put their both dicks in my mouth, open as wide as I could and playing with my tongue, I made them moan for a while, and one or two minutes later I left.

Following my friend, I could watch the rest of the place; glory holes, sex cabins, a dark room and even a jacuzzi.”

The first cumshot.

“I was feeling my dick swallowed since I put my cock inside the glory hole and I just got carried away by the suction, I supported my head and body on the wall. The sucking was amazing and I got to a point where I needed to know who was behind it, so I went to the other side of the wall.

A cute guy, a little shorter than me, with a beard told me to give him some milk, so I just let him blow me until my balls exploded out the first cumshots inside his throat. I almost even got kind of dizzy, I wasn’t recovered from that when he made me turn around, go to the nearest sex cabin and used my hole for his own pleasure. I was surprised that he was fucking me so easily, but I also thought that my hole had dilated before with the heat of the place and also with how horny I was already… His tool perfectly bounced in and out of my hole.”

Fulfilling my fantasy and the end of the night.

“I noticed two hot muscle guys on his thirties beside of us also fucking very hard and I knew I found what I was looking for.

While I was being pounded I gave some lewd eyes to one of them and I started touching his abs that were contracting while he was pounding another guy who was throwing cumshots on his own pecs and part of his face while the cock was giving him anal pleasure.

But I also felt how the guy who made me cum before was already making me pregnant.

After that, I got into the jacuzzi with the guy I gave lewd eyes to and he started to fuck me really hard after using my mouth and when I thought I had no more energies I came for the second time while he was filling my ass with his big uncut cock.

Suddenly, the first shades of light at 6am were starting to appear on the dark sky and I noticed that I spent the whole night having sex, a night I would never forget”.

What do you think about this night? I got hard reading it!


One of our best scenes last year; Mindfuck.

Last year we decided to make a scene at My Dirtiest Fantasy about Jackson Mills who goes to conversion therapy to stop being gay, and the solution is to get harshly and BDSM style fucked by Leo Marco; his therapist. Although the idea resulted in a ironically funny and hot scene, there’s the other side of the coin; the truth of the conversion therapies in real life.

It’s a controversial topic but it’s one that effects lots of gay guys. Especially those from more conservative backgrounds.

The reality and the effects of it.

Now some of you might not know what that is. Basically, it involves treatment to change a person’s sexuality.

You might assume this kind of thing belongs to the Middle Ages. Think again. It’s perfectly legal in lots of countries. Indeed, an estimation points out that the 5% of LGBT people in the UK are victims of it. And it’s a rate that rises to almost 10% in ethnic minorities.

Now to some this kind of thing might sound harmless, but rest assured it isn’t. The fact is that it can’t fix someone’s sexuality. It’s a scientific fact but thousands of guys suffer from it. The results can be devastating. Depression, increased use of drugs and even suicide.

This practice targets a lot of young guys. Often those under the age of 18.

Fortunately, it looks like more and more are becoming aware of the practice. As a result, there appears to be a worldwide effort to either discourage or (even better) ban its use.

What we’d like to see, however, is a total ban worldwide. We’d encourage everyone to pressure their local authorities to achieve this.

To some it might seem a harmless procedure, but we know for a fact that it’s not. It targets guys at their most vulnerable for dubious means.

Let’s hope we all live to see a day when no young person ever has to experience it again.

A scary past.

The history of conversion therapy dates back to the late 19th century, when it was first developed as a way to “cure” homosexuality.

In the early 1900s, psychoanalytic theories were developed, which suggested that homosexuality was a sign of psychological disturbance and could be “cured” through psychoanalysis. This led to a variety of treatments designed to change gay individuals into heterosexuals, including hypnosis, electric shock treatments, and hormone treatments.

One of the most brutal kind of procedures were the electric shocks based in the behaviorism approach of psychology. An individual receives one type of stimulus (the shock) while there’s another one around (the image of a man). If the subject is aroused by the man, he receives the shock. This is supposed to cause a response; that being attracted by men is painful and you should be attracted to women instead, but it’s non-effective since it doesn’t magically generates an attraction to women and it just makes the predetermined attraction to men a traumatic and painful experience; something that the subject will have to live with. This tortured a lot of LGTB people in those ages.

In the 1950s, the practice of conversion therapy became more mainstream with the publication of Dr. Edmund Bergler’s book, Homosexuality: Disease or Way of Life? This book argues that homosexuality is a disease that has to be cured.

In the 1970s and 1980s, the practice of conversion therapy became even more widespread, due to a rise in religious fundamentalism and the introduction of “ex-gay” ministries. These ministries sought to “cure” homosexuality through prayer and spiritual guidance.

The beginning of the change.

Today, we know that conversion therapies is unethical and ineffective.

In recent years, in 2009, the American Psychological Association (APA) issued a statement condemning the practice, citing a lack of scientific evidence to support its efficacy and a potential for harm.

In 2012, California became the first state to ban conversion therapy for minors, with several other states following suit. In addition to the medical community’s condemnation of conversion therapy, several legal challenges are making an effort to end the practice.

In 2018, a federal judge in California ruled that conversion therapy was unconstitutional and violated the rights of LGBT people. Despite the growing opposition to conversion therapy, some religious and conservative organizations continue to promote it.

In 2020, the Trump administration proposed a rule that would allow doctors and therapists to practice conversion therapy without consequence. The proposed rule is currently being challenged in court. The future of conversion therapy is uncertain, but opposition to the practice continues to grow. That same year, the APA issued a new statement condemning conversion therapy, and many cities and states are considering legislation to ban it.

We are far from defeating conversion therapies, but there is progress every day.


Foot fetish is one of the most common types of fetishes. The foot and the genitals occupy contiguous areas in the somatic-sensory cortex, and there are possibly links between the two.

When it comes to exploring our sexuality, fetishes can sometimes be a taboo topic. We don’t care about taboos at MY DIRTIEST FANTASY (as you might now) so… if you’re curious to learn more about fetishes; here are 5 fascinating facts about sexual fetishes you should know. 

1. Fetishes can exist in any form.

Fetishes are a form of sexual arousal that involve an object, body part, or activity that is not typically associated with sexual activities.

While they are often associated with kink and BDSM, they can actually exist in any form. It’s simply a strong, often sexual, attraction to something or someone. While some people may think that fetishes are only related to BDSM, this isn’t always the case. They can range from mild to extreme, and can involve anything from feet to role-playing. For example, someone may be aroused by the sight of high heels or the sound of someone’s voice. Some people may even be aroused by being spanked or tied up. They can also involve certain activities as exhibitionism.

They are not necessarily considered to be abnormal or unhealthy. Many people enjoy exploring and experimenting with them.

However, it’s important to have clear communication between partners when exploring fetishes. Find something that you’re both comfortable with. Be open and honest with each other about your feelings and desires. This can help to ensure that everyone is having a positive experience.

Daddy / Boy is one of the most popular fetishes

2. Fetishes Are Often Not As Weird As They Sound. 

The reality is that they are much more common than you may think and are often not as weird as they sound. It’s defined as an intense sexual desire for a particular object, body part, activity, or situation. It is more than just having a preference; it is a strong sexual urge that can be both arousing and comforting.

The most common fetishes involve feet, leather, rubber, and latex, but there are many more. People are naturally drawn to different things, which is why some people may find a certain object or activity particularly stimulating.

Furthermore, they can often provide a sense of comfort and security during intimate moments. For some, a particular object or activity can be comforting or can even bring back fond memories. In conclusion, they are common and should not be seen as strange or taboo.

3. Fetishes Can Be Learned.

While some are inborn, others can be learned. Learning a fetish can be a difficult process. For example, if a person has a fetish for a certain body type, they must learn to accept and appreciate that body type in order to have a successful relationship. This can be with people or objects.

In order to learn a fetish, it is important to be open-minded and to take the time to explore what interests you. There are a variety of books, videos, and websites dedicated to helping people learn about different fetishes. Additionally, talking to people with similar interests can be a great way to learn. Learning a fetish can be a rewarding experience. It can provide a person with a greater understanding of their sexuality and help them to explore and appreciate their desires. It can also help to provide a person with a sense of acceptance and community.

However, it is important to be respectful and understanding of different people’s fetishes and to not judge or criticize someone for their interests. It is also important to practice safe sex and to be aware of consent laws in your area.

4. Fetishes Can Make Relationships More Interesting.

Fetishes can make relationships more interesting by introducing new and exciting elements into the bedroom. From the exotic to the mundane, they can add mystery, excitement, and exploration to a relationship. They can provide an opportunity for partners to explore new aspects of their sexuality. From role-playing scenarios to exploring different physical sensations, they can open up new doors for partners to explore and experience. And, with the wide array of fetishes out there, partners can explore different kinds together to see what works for them. They can also be a way to keep a relationship fresh and exciting. This can lead to more intimacy and closeness between partners.

Finally, they can also be a way to explore boundaries and communication in a relationship. By discussing and experimenting with different fetishes, partners can learn more about each other’s desires and boundaries. This can help partners build trust and understanding in their relationship and can even lead to greater sexual satisfaction. So if you’re looking to spice up your relationship, consider exploring some fetishes together.

5. Fetishes Can Help People Explore Their Sexuality.

For those who may be uncomfortable or hesitant to explore their sexuality, fetishes can provide an opportunity for exploration in a safe and controlled environment. By engaging in a fetish, you can take the time to learn about yourself and what turns you on. Many people find that having a fetish gives them an outlet to explore their desires without fear of judgement or rejection. They can also be used to explore different types of kink and BDSM activities, allowing you to discover what turns you on and make your sex life even more exciting.

In addition to providing an outlet for exploration and discovery, fetishes can also help people become more comfortable with their own bodies. By engaging in a fetish, you can learn to accept and appreciate all the different parts of your body that make you uniquely you.

We at MY DIRTIEST FANTASY love fetish! That is why we made a living out of it. If you are curious about our work and want to watch some super hot guys living their fetishes… VISIT OUR SITE!

Mummification Within BDSM

Sam Acevado momified playing submissive with Leo Marco.

Not being able to move at ALL is a huge turn on for many people, however mummification is not just about restricting the submissive. It can also be used to create mild to complete sensory deprivation for the slave forcing them to focus only on the few sensations the Dominant chooses to provide. This can lead to a truly enhanced sense of arousal as the slaves mind quiets, any form of stimulation becomes amplified as the submissive has nothing else to focus on or distract them from what their Dominant is doing.  

There are many different types of materials that can be used for mummification. Some are found in your home while others are sold specifically for this activity. Some favorite materials including plastic wrap, duct tape, medical bandages, bondage tape, leather binders or straitjackets.

Types of Mummification

There are three basic types of mummification, Zone, Limited, and Full Body.

Zone Mummification is where specific areas of the body are wrapped.. This technique is a good start for beginners to get the sensation of being constricted. For example binding a leg whilst bending it thus limiting the mobility of that limb.

Limited Mummification is where the body is wrapped only from the shoulders down to the feet. The head is not wrapped. This is ideal as a second step after trying the Zone Mummification as neither mouth or nose are covered, and your partners eyes can be blindfolded, or not. 

Full Body Mummification is an extreme form of bondage, and it is the most dangerous, so extra precautions should be taken by the dominant to ensure safety. With full body mummification, the submissive is wrapped from the top of the head to the bottom of the feet. Some type of breathing device must be used for the safety of the submissive.

This form of mummification can be disorientating and thereby mess with the submissive psychologically during and after and can cause long-term emotional trauma if not done properly.

Try to imagine the psychological impact that being trapped within a tightly wrapped container with no way to escape as an individual with no knowledge of what they are doing stands above you and does nothing to help. This horrific experience can lead to longer term forms of anxiety, mistrust, and depression to only name a few.

Full body mummification should not be tried by beginners.

Before Wrapping

Always trust your instincts, if you don’t feel comfortable or feel uneasy you can say “stop”, “no thank you” or “I am done playing” at any time. Don’t ever let anybody tell you, you can’t stop a scene at any time or you have to participate in activity you are not comfortable with.

Trust is essential to mummification, one person is going to be completely immobilized and helpless for who knows how long. If you wouldn’t leave your wallet or purse unattended with a person you do not know, chances are pretty good you shouldn’t trust your life with them. Therefore it is crucial you know the person you are playing with and trust them, and that takes time. 

Mummification with someone you don’t know or trust is extremely risky.

Mummification is not a quick process. Plan at least thirty minutes to wrap the submissive, at least 10 minutes to an hour to leave them wrapped, and 15 to 20 minutes to free them.

The dominant will need approximately 100 yards of cling wrap, a few yards of duct tape, a head mask, cotton balls, Ace bandages, and a pair of EMT scissors. Have these on-hand before you start wrapping, nothing destroys the mood of a scene like laying around as your partner tries to find all their supplies. 

Find a comfortable place where your partner can lie down. This can be a bed, couch, or other flat surfaces.

Find out if your partner has any form of clastrophobia. If so this is not the kind of play for them.

Limited Mummification 

As previously mentioned in the Limited Mummification  the head is not wrapped, but the submissive can wear a mask, hood, or blindfold. Have the slave naked while wrapping, so they can feel the wrap applied to their body can help to create a more submissive head space.

Wrap the torso a couple of times pulling the wrap tight. While you can wrap across the chest, you might find it can become extremely easy to make the wrap too tight as you pull along the torso. Try not to just wrap the chest itself but crisscross the shoulders and chest. This allows for a little more breathing room in the wrap.

Have the submissive put their arms down and wrap again. Make sure it is nice and tight, but not so tight that it obstructs the ability of the submissive to breathe. Every time the wrap is crossed over the chest and back, having the submissive take in a big breathe and holding it as the wrap is pulled over will help to ensure the wrap is never so tight to restrict their ability to breathe.

It is easier to apply the wrap while the submissive stands, but falling over can be a hazard. 

Start wrapping at the top and work your way downwards and smooth the plastic as you wrap. Once you get to the hips, the submissive should lay down. You will need to assist them because they will not be able to help you. Have the submissive cross their ankles and continue to wrap all the way down.

Remember if you choose, you can always leave several strategically placed unwrapped areas for play! This could include the nipples and/or the ass and genital areas. 

Make sure you leave the nasal and mouth areas open and free of any obstructions to ensure there are no breathing problems. Since the submissive cannot move, check these areas often, always monitor their breathing and their face for signs of stress and panic.

If both partners enjoy the sensation of having the wrap, or tape cut off key areas of interest after being wrapped having a protective barrier to help to make sure the submissive is not hurt while exposing these areas is always a good idea. Having a small towel or cotton balls covering the area of interest underneath the wrappings, such as over the nipples, genitals or other areas will protect that area in case the Dominant accidentally cuts too deep. Giving you both more room for safety.

Full Body Mummification

Similar to the limited style, but the head is also wrapped. This type of mummification requires some type of assisted breathing device because the nose and mouth are restricted. Large holes for breathing are recommended for safety concerns.

Cotton balls, cloth, blindfold, headphones, ear plugs, ear muffs or ear protectors can be placed over the eyes and ears to not only protect them, but to increase the sensory deprivation experience. With no light or sound and a complete lack of mobility, producing a floating like experience.

The mind which is normally always overworking as it deals with images flooding the visual cortex, noise blasting against the eardrum and the constant need to control muscles to keep the body balanced are finally silenced. The mind for the first time is now allowed to freely float into the recesses of the mind unhindered by the constant noise of the surrounding world. Many people feel complete freedom not only from the world but from themselves.  

For a more intense experience, wrap each limb first and then wrap the limbs to the body.

If you want to watch some hot mummification action… come to visit our specific category!

My first time watching Pup Davey’s ass and more experiences!


The assistant.

Hi, wankers! My name is Y and I’m one of Timmy Treasure’s assistants. Lately I’ve been in charge of editing the photos and videos of My Dirtiest Fantasy. Going to the shootings and watch the actors fuck live is also an important part of my job also because it can give me ideas at the time of creating the audiovisual material!

I started working for Timmy 4 months ago and I’m still processing the first day I worked for him. BDSM is such a wide world, it’s a culture, and it’s a way to express yourself through sex, it’s almost like an art. Must be an art.

Timmy’s amazing, I don’t say so just to kiss his ass because he’s my boss, no, I really think he’s a professional and someone to look up to. As a retired model, he’s very good at guiding our actors to make the most of our scenes, and he’s taught me all I learnt lately. Thank you, professor! Also, he knows how to create a good productivity and work environment. And the actors who work with Timmy are mostly very interesting people! And today I want to talk about them and I want to talk about their work.

Some of the models.

Erik Devil, Pup Davey, Galiel Swan, Angel Black, Izan Loren, Craig Kennedy…

All of them have remarkable strenghts as porn models; Erik never fails having a hard-on and give the best cumshots to the camera. He’s young, beautiful and has attitude. If you fell in love with him, nobody can blame you. Galiel is so pure as a person, but we know he isn’t when recording! Angel is latin passion, tastiness and a submissive excelent bottom. Izan is funny, and he really lights up the vibe when we are working. Craig… well, no words. He’s perfect, from head to foot, every detail of him, and he knows about the importance of mental health! I really like when he talks about his ideas of projects in twitter about helping LGTBQ+ people who suffered some kind of abuse. You know how much I support you on that, Craig.

But… Pup Davey’s ass…

But… There’s someone I’d like to talk about too. And that is… Pup Davey.

Pup Davey is so funny! He also loves being bitchy; last time I had to clean a dildo for him he told me to do that and he also said; are you happy you got this job? Yeah, I love cleaning dildos for you, don’t ask me that as if it was boring or worse to clean dildos than being a camera or a director! But no hard feelings, Davey, you are such a great model and it was enjoyable to help you with your make-up or talk about whatever, but where you surprised me the most was when you showed me your ass. Yes, your ass is another universe, look at these photos! I never seen something like this! I was totally tripping! My mouth was wide open while watching! Your ass could swallow the whole galaxy! I could remember that I was working between all the surprise I was feeling and I was able to make a video with my phone, the scene hasn’t come out yet, so this is a little behind the scenes preview:

And this is actually nothing for him. You’re going to watch even more hardcore stuff on his scenes.

How to: Shibari in BDSM for begginers! (Guide)

The professional porn actor Joaquin Santana wearing the chest harness and the hip harness in one of our bondage sessions.

Let’s start with the basics.

Shibari, also known as Japanese rope bondage, is a form of rope bondage that originated in Japan. It typically involves the use of rope to create intricate patterns on the body, which can be both aesthetically pleasing, sexually and spiritually stimulating. 

Shibari and BDSM are two practices that often go hand-in-hand. 

When used together, Shibari and BDSM can create a powerful sexual connection between partners. The rope can be used to create a sense of physical and emotional closeness, while the BDSM activities can add an extra layer of excitement and intensity. The combination can be truly intoxicating, and even addictive for some.

Exploring Shibari.

If you’re interested in exploring Shibari with your partner, there are a few things you should keep in mind. First, communication is key. Make sure you discuss your desires, limits, and boundaries with your partner before getting started. It’s also important to be safe and use proper safety precautions, such as using quality rope and ensuring that knots are tied securely. And finally, don’t forget to have fun! Shibari can be an incredibly erotic and satisfying experience for both partners when done right. Shibari also has a number of benefits beyond the sexual. The act of tying and being tied can be incredibly meditative and relaxing, and can help to create a deep sense of connection between partners. It can also be used as a form of self-expression, and can be an incredibly empowering experience for those who engage in it. 

Key Tips.

When engaging in Shibari, it is important to be aware of a few key safety precautions. First, always use quality rope. This will help to avoid rope burns and other injuries. Second, make sure knots are tied securely. This will help to prevent the rope from coming undone and potentially causing injury. Finally, communication is key. Discuss your desires, limits, and boundaries with your partner before getting started. This will help to ensure that both partners are on the same page and that everyone is comfortable and safe.

Patterns and how to. 

There are a variety of different patterns that can be used when doing Shibari. Some of the most popular include the single column tie, the chest harness and the hip harness. Each of these patterns can be used to create a different effect and can be adjusted to fit the individual’s needs. When choosing a pattern, it is important to consider the individual’s comfort level and what you hope to achieve. For beginners, it is often best to start with a simpler pattern and build up to more complex ones. With practice, you’ll be able to create any number of different patterns to suit your needs.

Here are ways to do two of the most popular patterns for you to enjoy with your partner:

How to do a Shibari chest harness:

  1. Start by tying a rope around the person’s chest, just below the breasts.
  2. Make sure the rope is tight, but not too tight. 
  3. Cross the rope over the person’s back, and tie it in the front. 
  4. Cross the rope again in the back, and tie it in the front. 
  5. Repeat steps 3 and 4 until you have a lattice-like pattern. 
  6. Tie the rope off in the front, and trim the excess.

How to do a Shibari hip harness:

  1. Measure your hips and choose the appropriate size rope for your body. 
  2. Fold the rope in half and tie a basic knot at the center. 
  3. Wrap the rope around your hips, crossing the rope in the front and passing it under your butt. 
  4. Tie a knot in the front, making sure the rope is tight but not too tight. 
  5. Take the ends of the rope and tie them together in a basic knot. 
  6. You can adjust the tightness of the rope by pulling on the ends of the rope. 

Want to improve your BJ skills? Here’s some tips!


Start slowly…

When you’re about to start giving a blowjob it is important to start slowly, especially if he isn’t rock hard yet. You’ll have to get him hard before our mouth. So, you can start with little licks on his glans and lick all the way down to his balls. Once you feel this is enough, now’s the time to get the cock inside your mouth to start sucking him off. There are men whom like the depth, so if this is the case you might want to move on to a deep throat. However, if your partner rather his glans receiving all the pleasure, you should lick and suck off that area essentially.

Don’t forget to use your hands

Hands can be the perfect partners when you’re giving a blowjob if you can keep the rhythm with your mouth. If you’re arrhythmic, maybe this isn’t ideal for you. We advise you to do it one by one and repeat.


Adopt a good posture…

Your posture is important and is essential for the pleasure of both parts. However, cocks come in all shapes and sizes, so to increase the pleasure you might want to adapt your posture to be aligned with his. If a curved cock is presented to you, you may want him to be standing and you kneeling, or even a sixty-nine position.

Keep your teeth as far away as possible

Maybe you and your man are fanatics of torture sex and you use to bite each other your cocks. So, it’s okay. But if not, be careful my friend!

Change the rhythm, strength and intensity

You won’t keep your boy excited for long if you only have one repetitive posture. He probably will get bored. So, you can change the intensity, first slow then faster, switching between mouth and hands. Your boy won’t know what you’ll do next and that will drive him crazy. However, for the final moments, the same at the rhythm and strength may be the successful method for a gooey facial.

Look him in the eyes

Look at him. Don’t doubt to look at his face and torso while you’re licking and sucking his cock. It’s an extra sexual desire added.

Remember he has balls!

Don’t forget his balls. For many men it brings them great pleasure to touch and suck off his balls. You can mix two techniques: sucking them and holding them softly with your hand.

How to end

Decide how you’ll want the blowjob to end. If you don’t mind your partner shooting in your mouth or over another part of your body (your own penis for example) don’t doubt to mention this to him. This will be more pleasurable for both of you!

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Why do twinks love “Daddies”?


Going out in the gay community is like a trip back to high school, with various types of men clustering in groups at the grown-up playground that is a bar. It’s a pretty consistent cast of characters, really. You’ve got your “jock” types, the androgynous vixens, the “bears,” the “twinks” and the “daddies.”

There is a consistent pattern that plays out among the “twinks” and the “daddies.” It’s a tale as old as time: daddy’s eyes twink, twink eyes daddy, and they both end together for the rest of the evening, often going home together. And at My Dirtiest Fantasy know well what happens after

What is it about this scenario that makes it so typical in the gay community? Why is a young boy so much more likely to notice the Batman-like security guard than the Robin-ish gogo boy dancing nearly naked on the platform?

The following are the most common reasons why “twinks” attract to “daddies” like children are attracted to a busted piñata. 

1. Do What You Wish With My Body

The “gracefully” aged gentlemen among us are seasoned within the art of dating, and they are well aware of their desires and intentions. They waste no time making a move and going through with it. The twinks prefer this to the other hesitant younger guys, who are more likely to “eye-fuck” you from across the room without ever actually approaching you. No time for that.

 2. Size Matters

 It’s very typical: men north of their thirties are typically bigger. Whether they’re built, stocky or full-on buff, the sturdier size is appealing to the younger and slimmer “twink.” Young men like someone to hold on to–or better yet- someone to hold on to them. This isn’t the wilderness, and two sticks just don’t make a fire in the gay world.

  3. Get It Together

“Daddys” are more likely to be established. That isn’t to say that twinks are always looking for a sugar daddy or gaggles of gifts. It’s more about the overall stability of an older guy. Young men are going through the trials and tribulations of “finding themselves” and trying to figure my their life out, naturally they are likely to be attracted to someone who’s already been through that and has lived to see the other side. Nobody wants to be surrounded by a clone of them self, complete with their own set of their problems.

4. Tell Me Something I Don’t Know

Twinks like to be around someone who has a different perspective than themselves. If a twink is interested in the economic and social climate from when he was even old enough to be conscious of that the hell was going on. If he asks someone his age, the ‘90’s were all about Nickelodeon and Disneyland… but, there was some real crap going on that he never would have known about if not for the recounts of older guys.

5. Call Me Your PYT

The late Michael Jackson appreciated a pretty young guy by his side, and conveniently for “twinks,” so do the “daddies.”  And a fact is that opposites attract. You had better believe that a twink is packing a good face and a cute outfit to match his bubbling personality wherever he goes. “Daddies” like to feel macho, and what better way to achieve this than to have a cute little someone under their arm? Both guys in this relationship will be eager to show off their dates to their friends, thinking that they’re the lucky one in the couple.

With all of these points, we’re all more capable of going around the club or bar scene. We also can say confidently that Batman and Robin surely were more than just co-workers. Just saying.

What is it about this scenario that makes it so typical in the gay community? Why is a young boy so much more likely to notice the Batman-like security guard than the Robin-ish gogo boy dancing nearly naked on the platform?